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ISBN: 9781839739873
Imprint: Langham Global Library
Format: Paperback
Dimensions (mm): 229 x 152 x 8
Publication Date: 30/04/2025
Pages: 154
Language: English

Honouring God in Times of Conflict

£14.99

Interpersonal conflict among Christians is a common challenge worldwide. However, the literature on the topic is often dominated by Western perspectives which hold limited relevance for shame-oriented societies. Dr. Mano Emmanuel seeks to fill this gap, helping readers understand how conflict – and our reactions to it – are culturally embedded. Using case studies from Sri Lanka, she explores the impact of seven factors on how conflict is perceived and resolved, particularly in honour-shame contexts. Reflectingtheologically and biblically on these cultural dynamics, Dr. Emmanuel offers biblical guidelines for dealing with conflict in God-honouring ways while affirming what should be affirmed in culture and challenging what should be challenged. Each chapter also contains questions for discussion and reflection, making this a practical and accessible resource for any believer seeking to aid the church in its calling to reconciliation and peacemaking.

Author Bios

Mano Emmanuel
(By)

MANO EMMANUEL is Head of Academic Advancement and former Academic Dean at Colombo Theological Seminary, Sri Lanka, where she lectures in Ethics, Systematic Theology, and Biblical Studies. She has a PhD in Peace Studies from the Asia Graduate School of Theology, Manila, Philippines, and has written extensively on the topic of reconciliation.

Endorsements

Here is the go-to book to find a healthy approach to interpersonal conflict resolution. Drawing on her decades of experience as a teacher and minister in South Asia, Mano Emmanuel is eminently equipped to help us navigate through the treacherous hazards of conflict to substantial healing.

Jacob Cherian, PhD
Professor of New Testament and Dean of Faculty,
Southern Asia Bible College, Bangalore, India


Mano Emmanuel has written a wise and insightful book on how to think biblically about responding to conflicts in honour-shame settings. Honouring God in Times of Conflict shows how cultural dynamics and biblical wisdom shape relationships, using examples from everyday life. The lessons it contains can help us approach our own relational struggles with greater clarity and renewed confidence that the gospel of Jesus Christ transcends and transforms all cultures.

Ken Sande
Founder of Peacemaker Ministries
President of Relational Wisdom®360, USA


Dr. Emmanuel’s Honouring God in Times of Conflict intertwines real life narratives, profound biblical principles, cultural understanding, and professional wisdom to guide the reader to godly and effective pathways out of misunderstanding and conflict. It is a rich resource for empowering reconciliation.

Perry Shaw, PhD
Global Consultant,
Local Leaders International, Australia

Table of Contents

  1. Introduction
    1. 1 What is Conflict?
    2. 2 Our Culture
    3. 3 Identity
    4. 4 The Goal of Conflict Resolution
    5. 5 Communication Styles: How Do We Let Others Know How We Feel?
    6. 6 Conflict Resolution Styles
    7. 7 Relativistic Morality
    8. 8 Status and Power Distance
    9. 9 Extreme Reactions to Being Shamed
    10. 10 Repentance and Forgiveness
    11. 11 The Church’s Role in Reconciliation
  2. Conclusion
  3. Bibliography
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